if you can't tell, this is a profile of the baby's headWednesday, October 8, 2008
36.5 weeks
if you can't tell, this is a profile of the baby's headTuesday, September 23, 2008
Week 35- C section: to be or not to be
I went to discuss the "much needed c section, and the size of our baby". My doctor of the day, said, " why were you told you needed a c section?" I replied with, " my baby is too big." She totallly disagreed with that statement and told me there is no reason for me to have a c section. The baby is at 35 weeks, but 36 week size, which is no problem (6.2 lbs). The same size he was 2 wks ago.....She then proceeded to say, do you want one? We can schedule one....So, I have scheduled a c section because I figured it would be easier to schedule one in person with the language issues, than try to do it over the phone, BUT I plan to cancel it after my next "old" doctor appointment (oct 8) if the baby is still not HUGE. My body is meant to deliver a baby and not go through a major surgery. If we go with the c section it would be Oct 21, which is during 38.5wks. So, I also figure he could come naturally before this and if not he would be induced at 40 wks due to the diabetes.....
So, in the next few days I will contemplate when I want to cancel my appt....I'd like to do it right now to get it all out of my head and my constant thoughts, BUT also like it as a back up until I hear how big he is in two weeks. All in all, I could do a natural birth but end up with a c section if things don't go well. AHHH!!! Who wants to make the decisions for me!!???
Friday, September 19, 2008
Work/Friend Shower
We had our final shower today (semi surprise), at the school I work at. It was combined with my "friend shower" to make it easier. We had a great turnout, about 38 people attended or contributed to our baby's gifts. Plus Andrew was able to attend, which was a bonus for me since he is usually away during activities. We received a LOT of great presents: exersaucer, mobile, diapers, clothes, boppy, diapers, wipes, books etc, plus some nice gift cards for the PX and JcPenney. I hope to use the PX ones on more diapers or a few Step2 products (big plastic slide, car, picnic table, sand/water table). We will figure that out at a later date, well after the baby is born. Our son is definitely going to be spoiled by all of the wonderful things we received. I never thought so many people would contribute to the support of our child. It's unbelievable. We are very very fortunate.
PS the cake was the best cake I have had in a long time :) We got to bring it home, and we froze part of it so I can eat it after the baby is born...plus my coworkers brought appetizers to share that were also extremely good :)...I really do like food, and I admit I broke the carb rules for a bit...
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Insulin :(
Monday, September 8, 2008
Week 33
So, the wee one is still growing strong...about 6.17lbs, and 19.5" if I converted correctly. I have made an appointment with the delivery doctor on September 23 to discuss C sections, circumcision, epidural, and have an exam. My regular doctor is on vacation for 4 weeks, which means I may not see him again until the baby is born. We are now looking at the middle of October (37wks) for the arrival of our little boy (maybe not little)....I'm hoping we can use a few NB items and the 0-3 month clothes. I don't want to skip to 3-6 month items :(. But will keep you updated on the ETA.
Not much else here, just growing bigger in the belly...as my coworker said "you're all baby". I have a nice big firm belly. My back has begun to hurt, my ankles swell, and a bit of pressure in the belly. Still counting carbs and pricking my fingers 7 times a day.
My coworkers are having a shower for me before I stop working and a group of friends are also having one sometime soon. Neither group will tell me when, but I'm looking forward to a little social time and seeing everyone.
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Happy 28 to Me....Hospital Tour
Going to a German hospital requires you bring a LOT more with you....towels, wash clothes, robe, slippers, 4 nightgowns, underwear, socks, spray bottle, hair dryer, shampoo etc for showering, ice packs, money for phone calls, pop, water, snacks, nursing bras, nursing pads, etc etc. Only thing you need for the baby is an outfit to go home in. They provide all the clothing for his stay. Which is a lot of layers. The layers and blankets make you feel like the baby is going to die of heat.
When you arrive at the hospital you go straight to the maternity ward. You deliver your baby, and the next day is when you check in. How do they know who I truly am if I am not checked in? Positive is we get the head of the dept to deliver due to our insurance, and they tend to give the rooms with showers to our insurance too. He is also the only doctor in the area who will perform a circumcision...that is if he is not on vacation. In that case we have to drive to Heidelberg or elsewhere to get it done. Germans don't want to do it until the child is 1yo or not at all. Most doctors say it's not medically necessary so it's not needed. Often nurses will make Americans feel guilty about it all.
After, we leave the hospital we get the joy of all of the necessary paperwork to identify our child...soc sec, passport, insurance, base id, birth certificates (2: American abroad and German)...etc etc and within a week we have to visit the on base clinic to get checked on.....stressful...
Lots and lots of fun :) more and more hoops to jump through....and that summarizes the Army and the German hospital system....until I think of something else I find dumb...
We will head to the doc again on Monday to find out how things are going. I plan to ask about length vs weight and if there is a possibility of an early delivery/c section. Will update soon.
